Don't Play With L:(O) V E .. It's N(O)T As What U Think

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[color=#000000]Hey Everybody
Well , this is one of the topics i wanted to talk abt for long time ... but i wasn't sure
to talk abt it or not .... i know many people will not like what i'm gonna write ,but
it's just a member's thoughts n' wut i do beleive


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== - - Introduction - - ==

We know that LOVE is a pure nature that God created it in us since we were
kids , actually since we were infants
and from the first day of our life , the link between the
mother and the baby , if you take him away from his
mother he starts crying . All these emotions were planted in humans
Since the first days in their life . And we know that there
are different kinds of love , A duety love which is loving
Alla and the Prophet Mohammed (God's blessing and peace
be upon him) , A nessesary love which is loving you parents
and your family , there is loving your country, and there is the love b/w the
husband n' the wife ...etc . But what we are talking about here is the love between da opposit
genders ,the fanciers ... How many Songs , poems movies , novels is written about it ? . xX



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They say LOVE is A new world where you feel your self in the sky between
the clouds and stars , Where you feel really that you are living your live
A live full of nice feelings and emotions , You live every moment with a SMILE

BUT ... xX
Do you think this smile would last for ever
And what is the possible expectations after this smile
xX...



Qays & Laila

امر على الديار ديار ليلى ......اقبل ذا الجداروذا الجدار
وماحب الديار شغفناقلبى........ولكن حب من سكن الديار

Who doesn't know their story , One of the most famous love stories
BUT !!! ... It was ill fated love story , the lover wrote many poems that he was almost
to wirship her , went away from the world and then he died because of a LOVE stroy




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Thet say being in LOVE is like being in paradise; with each beat of your heart , a sweet
warm drop drips on your face ; with each whisper from your love , You feel that you
are born again ... And life without your love is just white/black , and when
You are with him Everythig get colored again


BUT ... xX
What if He is not always there and you missed him
What if You are separating away
xX...

It's gonna be what ?? ... Hell ? .. or still Paradise

Broken heart
puzzled feelings
Anger
pain
Turmoil
sadness
bloody tears
despair
suffering
Anguish

This is the cost of love







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Romeo & Juliet

Cleopatra & Mark Antony

emro'o al qays & Fatemah

Antar & Ablah

Heer & Ranjha

Many Many love stories ... The real ones or the mythical ones
And the the impressing thing here is
They never end with marriage -_-
Most likely have a sad ending -_-

Plenty of stories we see and hear these
days , specialy the phone or online relationships
And we are talking about the love story that is not
intended be be ended by marriage , actually continues
with marriage ... We are talking about a transient
love , that both sides know that end destiny is seprating away

Another impressing point is that we've never heard about
a love story that lasted for long, maybe yah but not often
I was reading a topic in da net and i found this
http://www.4uarab.com/index.php?id=612
check it out ^^^

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So , What's the point from this love
xX...

If we see , it's a harm more than a pleasure no benifit from it ...just imajinary love
and unreal dreams ... just a short term pleasure that ends and followed with a LONG time
of suffering and pain ..Lossing a degnity , that you become a slave for your love

Many Friendships would be ruined just for LOVE >> ask me
honor and noblility would be gone just for LOVE >> ask me
Homes and families would be destroied just for LOVE >> ask me
You May loss your religion , your studies , Money
health, ethics and maybe your whole life just for LOVE

Obsession

Delusion

LOVE steals the heart ... and eats the brain .. WHO WOULD DENY THAT



Some people gonna say IT'S CALLED FALLING IN LOVE
so its not by your hands ... hmmmm i would say it's right
somehow ... BUT do u expect that u can swim in the
sea without getting wet !!! .. So ur better to stay away
from the sea so u'll never get wet !!! .. xX





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Finally , i really feel that i can write much more abt that lool .. but i think this is enough
i know that i'm gonna get some criticism LOL .. But its gonna be more than welcome
Some people gonna write a list in two pages abt da advanteges of luv hehe
It's gonna be more than nice too LOL .. Well , maybe some poeple are gonna say
oh yah it seems that he falled in luv b4 and it hurt him hehe ... I'm gonna say i've never fall in luv h3
hmmmm .. wut els
>> god !! now i feel comfortable n' i released all these charges from my head heh ;D

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Like always , some questions for people who would like to answer



[color:09c0=#990000:09c0]Do you beleive in love & what do you think about love -_-


Do you think love is a pleasure with little sufferance-_-
OR sufferance with little pleasure


What do you think the advantages & disadvantages from love -_-

Are you with the love that comes after engagement or befor engagemnt -_-






thanxXxxx






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